Don't get me wrong. I love hearing/reading relationship + love articles from a male's perspective, but don't just pull sh*t out of your ass to make it fit. Do you have any stats to back up your claim? Don't tell me I need to perform fellatio in a mall bathroom every other day to be able to keep a man. Fuck you and everything you stand for. Not all women are the same, just as all men aren't the same. So the requirements for keeping your attention in a relationship may or may not be the same for someone else. Stay in your own lane and keep your nonsensical preferences to yourself. If you want a woman who will work 9am-5pm, 6pm-10pm, then cook and clean for you, that's your preference. Not all men want that.
I've been in the same relationship for 5 years without having to turn into a sex-crazed, do it in every inch of the park type of nympho. I'm not changing myself to “keep” or “get” a man. Either he wants to be here or he does not. No pressure. Black men, work on yourself first before you start telling women what they need to start changing to attract a certain type of men. When you work on yourself, you will attract the type of woman you want. The same goes for everyone else. So, like I've said before, shut the fuck up.
Thank you kindly,